Its not quite as long as it looks but, if you don't end up crying you have no heart...

 

 

Burial at Sea

 

by LtCol George Goodson, USMC (Ret)

 

 

In my 76th year, the events of my life appear to me, from time to time, as a

 

series of vignettes. Some were significant; most were trivial.

 

 

 

War is the seminal event in the life of everyone that has endured it.

 

Though I fought in Korea and the Dominican Republic and was wounded there,

 

Vietnam was my war.

 

 

 

Now 42 years have passed and, thankfully, I rarely think of those days in

 

Cambodia, Laos, and the panhandle of North Vietnam where small teams of

 

Americans and Montangards fought much larger elements of the North

 

Vietnamese Army. Instead I see vignettes: some exotic, some mundane:

 

 

 

*The smell of Nuc Mam.

 

*The heat, dust, and humidity.

 

*The blue exhaust of cycles clogging the streets.

 

*Elephants moving silently through the tall grass.

 

*Hard eyes behind the servile smiles of the villagers.

 

*Standing on a mountain in Laos and hearing a tiger roar.

 

*A young girl squeezing my hand as my medic delivered her baby.

 

*The flowing Ao Dais of the young women biking down Tran Hung Dao.

 

*My two years as Casualty Notification Officer in North Carolina , Virginia ,

 

and Maryland .

 

 

 

It was late 1967. I had just returned after 18 months in Vietnam .

 

Casualties were increasing. I moved my family from Indianapolis to Norfolk ,

 

rented a house, enrolled my children in their fifth or sixth new school, and

 

bought a second car.

 

 

 

A week later, I put on my uniform and drove 10 miles to Little Creek,

 

Virginia. I hesitated before entering my new office. Appearance is important

 

to career Marines. I was no longer, if ever, a poster Marine. I had returned

 

from my third tour in Vietnam only 30 days before. At 5'9", I now weighed

 

128 pounds - 37 pounds below my normal weight. My uniforms fit ludicrously,

 

my skin was yellow from malaria medication, and I think I had a twitch or

 

two.

 

 

 

I straightened my shoulders, walked into the office, looked at the nameplate

 

on a Staff Sergeant's desk and said, "Sergeant Jolly, I'm Lieutenant Colonel

 

Goodson. Here are my orders and my Qualification Jacket."

 

 

 

Sergeant Jolly stood, looked carefully at me, took my orders, stuck out his

 

hand; we shook and he asked, "How long were you there, Colonel?" I replied

 

"18 months this time." Jolly breathed, you must be a slow learner Colonel."

 

I smiled.

 

 

 

Jolly said, "Colonel, I'll show you to your office and bring in the Sergeant

 

Major. I said, "No, let's just go straight to his office." Jolly nodded,

 

hesitated, and lowered his voice, "Colonel, the Sergeant Major. He's been in

 

this job two years. He's packed pretty tight. I'm worried about him." I

 

nodded.

 

 

 

Jolly escorted me into the Sergeant Major's office. "Sergeant Major, this is

 

Colonel Goodson, the new Commanding Officer. The Sergeant Major stood,

 

extended his hand and said, "Good to see you again, Colonel." I responded,

 

"Hello Walt, how are you?" Jolly looked at me, raised an eyebrow, walked

 

out, and closed the door.

 

 

 

I sat down with the Sergeant Major. We had the obligatory cup of coffee and

 

talked about mutual acquaintances. Walt's stress was palpable. Finally, I

 

said, "Walt, what's the h-ll's wrong?" He turned his chair, looked out the

 

window and said, "George, you're going to wish you were back in Nam before

 

you leave here. I've been in the Marine Corps since 1939. I was in the

 

Pacific 36 months, Korea for 14 months, and Vietnam for 12 months. Now I

 

come here to bury these kids. I'm putting my letter in. I can't take it

 

anymore." I said, "OK Walt. If that's what you want, I'll endorse your

 

request for retirement and do what I can to push it through Headquarters

 

Marine Corps."

 

 

 

Sergeant Major Walt Xxxxx retired 12 weeks later. He had been a good Marine

 

for 28 years, but he had seen too much death and too much suffering. He was

 

used up.

 

 

 

Over the next 16 months, I made 28 death notifications, conducted 28

 

military funerals, and made 30 notifications to the families of Marines that

 

were severely wounded or missing in action. Most of the details of those

 

casualty notifications have now, thankfully, faded from memory. Four,

 

however, remain.

 

 

 

MY FIRST NOTIFICATION

 

My third or fourth day in Norfolk , I was notified of the death of a 19 year

 

old Marine. This notification came by telephone from Headquarters Marine

 

Corps. The information detailed:

 

 

 

*Name, rank, and serial number.

 

*Name, address, and phone number of next of kin.

 

*Date of and limited details about the Marine's death.

 

*Approximate date the body would arrive at the Norfolk Naval Air Station.

 

*A strong recommendation on whether the casket should be opened or closed.

 

 

 

The boy's family lived over the border in North Carolina , about 60 miles

 

away. I drove there in a Marine Corps staff car. Crossing the state line

 

into North Carolina , I stopped at a small country store / service station /

 

Post Office.. I went in to ask directions.

 

 

 

Three people were in the store. A man and woman approached the small Post

 

Office window. The man held a package. The Storeowner walked up and

 

addressed them by name, "Hello John. Good morning Mrs. Cooper."

 

 

 

I was stunned. My casualty's next-of-kin's name was John Cooper!

 

 

 

I hesitated, then stepped forward and said, "I beg your pardon. Are you Mr.

 

and Mrs. John Cooper of (address.)

 

 

 

The father looked at me-I was in uniform - and then, shaking, bent at the

 

waist, he vomited. His wife looked horrified at him and then at me.

 

Understanding came into her eyes and she collapsed in slow motion. I think I

 

caught her before she hit the floor.

 

 

 

The owner took a bottle of whiskey out of a drawer and handed it to Mr.

 

Cooper who drank. I answered their questions for a few minutes. Then I drove

 

them home in my staff car. The storeowner locked the store and followed in

 

their truck. We stayed an hour or so until the family began arriving.

 

 

 

I returned the storeowner to his business. He thanked me and said, "Mister,

 

I wouldn't have your job for a million dollars." I shook his hand and said;

 

"Neither would I."

 

 

 

I vaguely remember the drive back to Norfolk . Violating about five Marine

 

Corps regulations, I drove the staff car straight to my house. I sat with

 

my family while they ate dinner, went into the den, closed the door, and sat

 

there all night, alone.

 

 

 

My Marines steered clear of me for days. I had made my first death

 

notification.

 

 

 

THE FUNERALS

 

Weeks passed with more notifications and more funerals. I borrowed Marines

 

from the local Marine Corps Reserve and taught them to conduct a military

 

funeral: how to carry a casket, how to fire the volleys and how to fold the

 

flag.

 

 

 

When I presented the flag to the mother, wife, or father, I always said,

 

"All Marines share in your grief." I had been instructed to say, "On behalf

 

of a grateful nation...." I didn't think the nation was grateful, so I

 

didn't say that.

 

 

 

Sometimes, my emotions got the best of me and I couldn't speak. When that

 

happened, I just handed them the flag and touched a shoulder. They would

 

look at me and nod. Once a mother said to me, "I'm so sorry you have this

 

terrible job." My eyes filled with tears and I leaned over and kissed her.

 

 

 

ANOTHER NOTIFICATION

 

Six weeks after my first notification, I had another. This was a young PFC.

 

I drove to his mother's house. As always, I was in uniform and driving a

 

Marine Corps staff car. I parked in front of the house, took a deep breath,

 

and walked towards the house. Suddenly the door flew open, a middle-aged

 

woman rushed out. She looked at me and ran across the yard, screaming "NO!

 

NO! NO! NO!"

 

 

 

I hesitated. Neighbors came out. I ran to her, grabbed her, and whispered

 

stupid things to reassure her. She collapsed. I picked her up and carried

 

her into the house.. Eight or nine neighbors followed. Ten or fifteen later,

 

the father came in followed by ambulance personnel. I have no recollection

 

of leaving.

 

 

 

The funeral took place about two weeks later. We went through the drill. The

 

mother never looked at me. The father looked at me once and shook his head

 

sadly.

 

 

 

ANOTHER NOTIFICATION

 

One morning, as I walked in the office, the phone was ringing. Sergeant

 

Jolly held the phone up and said, "You've got another one, Colonel." I

 

nodded, walked into my office, picked up the phone, took notes, thanked the

 

officer making the call, I have no idea why, and hung up. Jolly, who had

 

listened, came in with a special Telephone Directory that translates

 

telephone numbers into the person's address and place of employment.

 

 

 

The father of this casualty was a Longshoreman. He lived a mile from my

 

office. I called the Longshoreman's Union Office and asked for the Business

 

Manager. He answered the phone, I told him who I was, and asked for the

 

father's schedule.

 

 

 

The Business Manager asked, "Is it his son?" I said nothing. After a moment,

 

he said, in a low voice, "Tom is at home today." I said, "Don't call him.

 

I'll take care of that." The Business Manager said, "Aye, Aye Sir," and then

 

explained, "Tom and I were Marines in WWII."

 

 

 

I got in my staff car and drove to the house. I was in uniform. I knocked

 

and a woman in her early forties answered the door. I saw instantly that she

 

was clueless. I asked, "Is Mr. Smith home?" She smiled pleasantly and

 

responded, "Yes, but he's eating breakfast now. Can you come back later?" I

 

said, "I'm sorry. It's important. I need to see him now."

 

 

 

She nodded, stepped back into the beach house and said, "Tom, it's for you."

 

 

 

A moment later, a ruddy man in his late forties, appeared at the door. He

 

looked at me, turned absolutely pale, steadied himself, and said, "Jesus

 

Christ man, he's only been there three weeks!"

 

 

 

Months passed. More notifications and more funerals. Then one day while I

 

was running, Sergeant Jolly stepped outside the building and gave a loud

 

whistle, two fingers in his mouth....... I never could do that..... and held

 

an imaginary phone to his ear.

 

 

 

Another call from Headquarters Marine Corps. I took notes, said, "Got it."

 

and hung up. I had stopped saying "Thank You" long ago.

 

 

 

Jolly, "Where?"

 

 

 

Me, "Eastern Shore of Maryland . The father is a retired Chief Petty Officer.

 

His brother will accompany the body back from Vietnam ...."

 

 

 

Jolly shook his head slowly, straightened, and then said, "This time of day,

 

it'll take three hours to get there and back. I'll call the Naval Air

 

Station and borrow a helicopter. And I'll have Captain Tolliver get one of

 

his men to meet you and drive you to the Chief's home."

 

 

 

He did, and 40 minutes later, I was knocking on the father's door. He opened

 

the door, looked at me, then looked at the Marine standing at parade rest

 

beside the car, and asked, "Which one of my boys was it, Colonel?"

 

 

 

I stayed a couple of hours, gave him all the information, my office and home

 

phone number and told him to call me, anytime.

 

 

 

He called me that evening about 2300 (11:00PM). "I've gone through my boy's

 

papers and found his will. He asked to be buried at sea. Can you make that

 

happen?" I said, "Yes I can, Chief. I can and I will."

 

 

 

My wife who had been listening said, "Can you do that?" I told her, "I have

 

no idea. But I'm going to break my ass trying."

 

 

 

I called Lieutenant General Alpha Bowser, Commanding General, Fleet Marine

 

Force Atlantic , at home about 2330, explained the situation, and asked,

 

"General, can you get me a quick appointment with the Admiral at Atlantic

 

Fleet Headquarters?" General Bowser said," George, you be there tomorrow at

 

0900. He will see you.

 

 

 

I was and the Admiral did. He said coldly, "How can the Navy help the Marine

 

Corps, Colonel." I told him the story. He turned to his Chief of Staff and

 

said, "Which is the sharpest destroyer in port?" The Chief of Staff

 

responded with a name.

 

 

 

The Admiral called the ship, "Captain, you're going to do a burial at sea.

 

You'll report to a Marine Lieutenant Colonel Goodson until this mission is

 

completed..."

 

 

 

He hung up, looked at me, and said, "The next time you need a ship, Colonel,

 

call me. You don't have to sic Al Bowser on my ass." I responded, "Aye Aye,

 

Sir" and got the h-ll out of his office.

 

 

 

I went to the ship and met with the Captain, Executive Officer, and the

 

Senior Chief. Sergeant Jolly and I trained the ship's crew for four days.

 

Then Jolly raised a question none of us had thought of. He said, "These

 

government caskets are air tight. How do we keep it from floating?"

 

 

 

All the high priced help including me sat there looking dumb. Then the

 

Senior Chief stood and said, "Come on Jolly. I know a bar where the retired

 

guys from World War II hang out."

 

 

 

They returned a couple of hours later, slightly the worst for wear, and

 

said, "It's simple; we cut four 12" holes in the outer shell of the casket

 

on each side and insert 300 lbs of lead in the foot end of the casket. We

 

can handle that, no sweat."

 

 

 

The day arrived. The ship and the sailors looked razor sharp. General

 

Bowser, the Admiral, a US Senator, and a Navy Band were on board. The sealed

 

casket was brought aboard and taken below for modification. The ship got

 

underway to the 12-fathom depth.

 

 

 

The sun was hot. The ocean flat. The casket was brought aft and placed on a

 

catafalque. The Chaplin spoke. The volleys were fired. The flag was

 

removed, folded, and I gave it to the father. The band played "Eternal

 

Father Strong to Save." The casket was raised slightly at the head and it

 

slid into the sea.

 

 

 

The heavy casket plunged straight down about six feet. The incoming water

 

collided with the air pockets in the outer shell. The casket stopped

 

abruptly, rose straight out of the water about three feet, stopped, and

 

slowly slipped back into the sea. The air bubbles rising from the sinking

 

casket sparkled in the in the sunlight as the casket disappeared from sight

 

forever....

 

 

 

The next morning I called a personal friend, Lieutenant General Oscar

 

Peatross, at Headquarters Marine Corps and said, "General, get me out of

 

here. I can't take this anymore.." I was transferred two weeks later.

 

 

 

I was a good Marine but, after 17 years, I had seen too much death and too

 

much suffering. I was used up.

 

 

 

Vacating the house, my family and I drove to the office in a two-car convoy.

 

I said my goodbyes. Sergeant Jolly walked out with me. He waved at my

 

family, looked at me with tears in his eyes, came to attention, saluted, and

 

said, "Well Done, Colonel. Well Done."

 

I felt as if I had received the Medal of Honor! Jmac

Its not quite as long as it looks but, if you don't end up crying you have no heart...

 

 

Burial at Sea

 

by LtCol George Goodson, USMC (Ret)

 

 

In my 76th year, the events of my life appear to me, from time to time, as a

 

series of vignettes. Some were significant; most were trivial.

 

 

 

War is the seminal event in the life of everyone that has endured it.

 

Though I fought in Korea and the Dominican Republic and was wounded there,

 

Vietnam was my war.

 

 

 

Now 42 years have passed and, thankfully, I rarely think of those days in

 

Cambodia, Laos, and the panhandle of North Vietnam where small teams of

 

Americans and Montangards fought much larger elements of the North

 

Vietnamese Army. Instead I see vignettes: some exotic, some mundane:

 

 

 

*The smell of Nuc Mam.

 

*The heat, dust, and humidity.

 

*The blue exhaust of cycles clogging the streets.

 

*Elephants moving silently through the tall grass.

 

*Hard eyes behind the servile smiles of the villagers.

 

*Standing on a mountain in Laos and hearing a tiger roar.

 

*A young girl squeezing my hand as my medic delivered her baby.

 

*The flowing Ao Dais of the young women biking down Tran Hung Dao.

 

*My two years as Casualty Notification Officer in North Carolina , Virginia ,

 

and Maryland .

 

 

 

It was late 1967. I had just returned after 18 months in Vietnam .

 

Casualties were increasing. I moved my family from Indianapolis to Norfolk ,

 

rented a house, enrolled my children in their fifth or sixth new school, and

 

bought a second car.

 

 

 

A week later, I put on my uniform and drove 10 miles to Little Creek,

 

Virginia. I hesitated before entering my new office. Appearance is important

 

to career Marines. I was no longer, if ever, a poster Marine. I had returned

 

from my third tour in Vietnam only 30 days before. At 5'9", I now weighed

 

128 pounds - 37 pounds below my normal weight. My uniforms fit ludicrously,

 

my skin was yellow from malaria medication, and I think I had a twitch or

 

two.

 

 

 

I straightened my shoulders, walked into the office, looked at the nameplate

 

on a Staff Sergeant's desk and said, "Sergeant Jolly, I'm Lieutenant Colonel

 

Goodson. Here are my orders and my Qualification Jacket."

 

 

 

Sergeant Jolly stood, looked carefully at me, took my orders, stuck out his

 

hand; we shook and he asked, "How long were you there, Colonel?" I replied

 

"18 months this time." Jolly breathed, you must be a slow learner Colonel."

 

I smiled.

 

 

 

Jolly said, "Colonel, I'll show you to your office and bring in the Sergeant

 

Major. I said, "No, let's just go straight to his office." Jolly nodded,

 

hesitated, and lowered his voice, "Colonel, the Sergeant Major. He's been in

 

this job two years. He's packed pretty tight. I'm worried about him." I

 

nodded.

 

 

 

Jolly escorted me into the Sergeant Major's office. "Sergeant Major, this is

 

Colonel Goodson, the new Commanding Officer. The Sergeant Major stood,

 

extended his hand and said, "Good to see you again, Colonel." I responded,

 

"Hello Walt, how are you?" Jolly looked at me, raised an eyebrow, walked

 

out, and closed the door.

 

 

 

I sat down with the Sergeant Major. We had the obligatory cup of coffee and

 

talked about mutual acquaintances. Walt's stress was palpable. Finally, I

 

said, "Walt, what's the h-ll's wrong?" He turned his chair, looked out the

 

window and said, "George, you're going to wish you were back in Nam before

 

you leave here. I've been in the Marine Corps since 1939. I was in the

 

Pacific 36 months, Korea for 14 months, and Vietnam for 12 months. Now I

 

come here to bury these kids. I'm putting my letter in. I can't take it

 

anymore." I said, "OK Walt. If that's what you want, I'll endorse your

 

request for retirement and do what I can to push it through Headquarters

 

Marine Corps."

 

 

 

Sergeant Major Walt Xxxxx retired 12 weeks later. He had been a good Marine

 

for 28 years, but he had seen too much death and too much suffering. He was

 

used up.

 

 

 

Over the next 16 months, I made 28 death notifications, conducted 28

 

military funerals, and made 30 notifications to the families of Marines that

 

were severely wounded or missing in action. Most of the details of those

 

casualty notifications have now, thankfully, faded from memory. Four,

 

however, remain.

 

 

 

MY FIRST NOTIFICATION

 

My third or fourth day in Norfolk , I was notified of the death of a 19 year

 

old Marine. This notification came by telephone from Headquarters Marine

 

Corps. The information detailed:

 

 

 

*Name, rank, and serial number.

 

*Name, address, and phone number of next of kin.

 

*Date of and limited details about the Marine's death.

 

*Approximate date the body would arrive at the Norfolk Naval Air Station.

 

*A strong recommendation on whether the casket should be opened or closed.

 

 

 

The boy's family lived over the border in North Carolina , about 60 miles

 

away. I drove there in a Marine Corps staff car. Crossing the state line

 

into North Carolina , I stopped at a small country store / service station /

 

Post Office.. I went in to ask directions.

 

 

 

Three people were in the store. A man and woman approached the small Post

 

Office window. The man held a package. The Storeowner walked up and

 

addressed them by name, "Hello John. Good morning Mrs. Cooper."

 

 

 

I was stunned. My casualty's next-of-kin's name was John Cooper!

 

 

 

I hesitated, then stepped forward and said, "I beg your pardon. Are you Mr.

 

and Mrs. John Cooper of (address.)

 

 

 

The father looked at me-I was in uniform - and then, shaking, bent at the

 

waist, he vomited. His wife looked horrified at him and then at me.

 

Understanding came into her eyes and she collapsed in slow motion. I think I

 

caught her before she hit the floor.

 

 

 

The owner took a bottle of whiskey out of a drawer and handed it to Mr.

 

Cooper who drank. I answered their questions for a few minutes. Then I drove

 

them home in my staff car. The storeowner locked the store and followed in

 

their truck. We stayed an hour or so until the family began arriving.

 

 

 

I returned the storeowner to his business. He thanked me and said, "Mister,

 

I wouldn't have your job for a million dollars." I shook his hand and said;

 

"Neither would I."

 

 

 

I vaguely remember the drive back to Norfolk . Violating about five Marine

 

Corps regulations, I drove the staff car straight to my house. I sat with

 

my family while they ate dinner, went into the den, closed the door, and sat

 

there all night, alone.

 

 

 

My Marines steered clear of me for days. I had made my first death

 

notification.

 

 

 

THE FUNERALS

 

Weeks passed with more notifications and more funerals. I borrowed Marines

 

from the local Marine Corps Reserve and taught them to conduct a military

 

funeral: how to carry a casket, how to fire the volleys and how to fold the

 

flag.

 

 

 

When I presented the flag to the mother, wife, or father, I always said,

 

"All Marines share in your grief." I had been instructed to say, "On behalf

 

of a grateful nation...." I didn't think the nation was grateful, so I

 

didn't say that.

 

 

 

Sometimes, my emotions got the best of me and I couldn't speak. When that

 

happened, I just handed them the flag and touched a shoulder. They would

 

look at me and nod. Once a mother said to me, "I'm so sorry you have this

 

terrible job." My eyes filled with tears and I leaned over and kissed her.

 

 

 

ANOTHER NOTIFICATION

 

Six weeks after my first notification, I had another. This was a young PFC.

 

I drove to his mother's house. As always, I was in uniform and driving a

 

Marine Corps staff car. I parked in front of the house, took a deep breath,

 

and walked towards the house. Suddenly the door flew open, a middle-aged

 

woman rushed out. She looked at me and ran across the yard, screaming "NO!

 

NO! NO! NO!"

 

 

 

I hesitated. Neighbors came out. I ran to her, grabbed her, and whispered

 

stupid things to reassure her. She collapsed. I picked her up and carried

 

her into the house.. Eight or nine neighbors followed. Ten or fifteen later,

 

the father came in followed by ambulance personnel. I have no recollection

 

of leaving.

 

 

 

The funeral took place about two weeks later. We went through the drill. The

 

mother never looked at me. The father looked at me once and shook his head

 

sadly.

 

 

 

ANOTHER NOTIFICATION

 

One morning, as I walked in the office, the phone was ringing. Sergeant

 

Jolly held the phone up and said, "You've got another one, Colonel." I

 

nodded, walked into my office, picked up the phone, took notes, thanked the

 

officer making the call, I have no idea why, and hung up. Jolly, who had

 

listened, came in with a special Telephone Directory that translates

 

telephone numbers into the person's address and place of employment.

 

 

 

The father of this casualty was a Longshoreman. He lived a mile from my

 

office. I called the Longshoreman's Union Office and asked for the Business

 

Manager. He answered the phone, I told him who I was, and asked for the

 

father's schedule.

 

 

 

The Business Manager asked, "Is it his son?" I said nothing. After a moment,

 

he said, in a low voice, "Tom is at home today." I said, "Don't call him.

 

I'll take care of that." The Business Manager said, "Aye, Aye Sir," and then

 

explained, "Tom and I were Marines in WWII."

 

 

 

I got in my staff car and drove to the house. I was in uniform. I knocked

 

and a woman in her early forties answered the door. I saw instantly that she

 

was clueless. I asked, "Is Mr. Smith home?" She smiled pleasantly and

 

responded, "Yes, but he's eating breakfast now. Can you come back later?" I

 

said, "I'm sorry. It's important. I need to see him now."

 

 

 

She nodded, stepped back into the beach house and said, "Tom, it's for you."

 

 

 

A moment later, a ruddy man in his late forties, appeared at the door. He

 

looked at me, turned absolutely pale, steadied himself, and said, "Jesus

 

Christ man, he's only been there three weeks!"

 

 

 

Months passed. More notifications and more funerals. Then one day while I

 

was running, Sergeant Jolly stepped outside the building and gave a loud

 

whistle, two fingers in his mouth....... I never could do that..... and held

 

an imaginary phone to his ear.

 

 

 

Another call from Headquarters Marine Corps. I took notes, said, "Got it."

 

and hung up. I had stopped saying "Thank You" long ago.

 

 

 

Jolly, "Where?"

 

 

 

Me, "Eastern Shore of Maryland . The father is a retired Chief Petty Officer.

 

His brother will accompany the body back from Vietnam ...."

 

 

 

Jolly shook his head slowly, straightened, and then said, "This time of day,

 

it'll take three hours to get there and back. I'll call the Naval Air

 

Station and borrow a helicopter. And I'll have Captain Tolliver get one of

 

his men to meet you and drive you to the Chief's home."

 

 

 

He did, and 40 minutes later, I was knocking on the father's door. He opened

 

the door, looked at me, then looked at the Marine standing at parade rest

 

beside the car, and asked, "Which one of my boys was it, Colonel?"

 

 

 

I stayed a couple of hours, gave him all the information, my office and home

 

phone number and told him to call me, anytime.

 

 

 

He called me that evening about 2300 (11:00PM). "I've gone through my boy's

 

papers and found his will. He asked to be buried at sea. Can you make that

 

happen?" I said, "Yes I can, Chief. I can and I will."

 

 

 

My wife who had been listening said, "Can you do that?" I told her, "I have

 

no idea. But I'm going to break my ass trying."

 

 

 

I called Lieutenant General Alpha Bowser, Commanding General, Fleet Marine

 

Force Atlantic , at home about 2330, explained the situation, and asked,

 

"General, can you get me a quick appointment with the Admiral at Atlantic

 

Fleet Headquarters?" General Bowser said," George, you be there tomorrow at

 

0900. He will see you.

 

 

 

I was and the Admiral did. He said coldly, "How can the Navy help the Marine

 

Corps, Colonel." I told him the story. He turned to his Chief of Staff and

 

said, "Which is the sharpest destroyer in port?" The Chief of Staff

 

responded with a name.

 

 

 

The Admiral called the ship, "Captain, you're going to do a burial at sea.

 

You'll report to a Marine Lieutenant Colonel Goodson until this mission is

 

completed..."

 

 

 

He hung up, looked at me, and said, "The next time you need a ship, Colonel,

 

call me. You don't have to sic Al Bowser on my ass." I responded, "Aye Aye,

 

Sir" and got the h-ll out of his office.

 

 

 

I went to the ship and met with the Captain, Executive Officer, and the

 

Senior Chief. Sergeant Jolly and I trained the ship's crew for four days.

 

Then Jolly raised a question none of us had thought of. He said, "These

 

government caskets are air tight. How do we keep it from floating?"

 

 

 

All the high priced help including me sat there looking dumb. Then the

 

Senior Chief stood and said, "Come on Jolly. I know a bar where the retired

 

guys from World War II hang out."

 

 

 

They returned a couple of hours later, slightly the worst for wear, and

 

said, "It's simple; we cut four 12" holes in the outer shell of the casket

 

on each side and insert 300 lbs of lead in the foot end of the casket. We

 

can handle that, no sweat."

 

 

 

The day arrived. The ship and the sailors looked razor sharp. General

 

Bowser, the Admiral, a US Senator, and a Navy Band were on board. The sealed

 

casket was brought aboard and taken below for modification. The ship got

 

underway to the 12-fathom depth.

 

 

 

The sun was hot. The ocean flat. The casket was brought aft and placed on a

 

catafalque. The Chaplin spoke. The volleys were fired. The flag was

 

removed, folded, and I gave it to the father. The band played "Eternal

 

Father Strong to Save." The casket was raised slightly at the head and it

 

slid into the sea.

 

 

 

The heavy casket plunged straight down about six feet. The incoming water

 

collided with the air pockets in the outer shell. The casket stopped

 

abruptly, rose straight out of the water about three feet, stopped, and

 

slowly slipped back into the sea. The air bubbles rising from the sinking

 

casket sparkled in the in the sunlight as the casket disappeared from sight

 

forever....

 

 

 

The next morning I called a personal friend, Lieutenant General Oscar

 

Peatross, at Headquarters Marine Corps and said, "General, get me out of

 

here. I can't take this anymore.." I was transferred two weeks later.

 

 

 

I was a good Marine but, after 17 years, I had seen too much death and too

 

much suffering. I was used up.

 

 

 

Vacating the house, my family and I drove to the office in a two-car convoy.

 

I said my goodbyes. Sergeant Jolly walked out with me. He waved at my

 

family, looked at me with tears in his eyes, came to attention, saluted, and

 

said, "Well Done, Colonel. Well Done."

 

I felt as if I had received the Medal of Honor! Jmac