plus I'm banned from the FA forums, so I can't exactly get a reply there, but why does love hurt so much. It's a rather unsettling feeling, I live about 2000km which is about 1250miles from the one I just might be perfect with.Her -- says:think im going to go to bedMe says::/Her -- says:i find myself growing too attached to you and i cant let that happen :/Me says:i think its a little lateHer -- says:what am i supposed to do sit here and have the hotts for you from afar?Me says:yes Me says:i dont knowMe says:i understand what you meanHer -- says:its too hard to thinkHer -- says:jeeze you might be perfect for meHer -- says:but you live likeHer -- says:2000 km awayHer -- says::(Me says: i knowMe says:i know exactly what you mean, but it hurts to hear itMe says:in my eyes, you are the perfect girlMe says:but once again,Me says:im here, you're thereHer -- says::/Her -- says:its depressingHer -- says:oh well im going to bedMe says:my brain says, ya its the right thingHer -- says:it was a long awful dayMe says:heart says no :(Her -- says:i dont know waht to doHer -- says:oh wellsHer -- says:its likeHer -- says:eRomeoandJuliet Me says:its best you goto bed Her -- says:i'll talk to you tomorrowHer -- says:df praccy too Me says:i wont be thereMe says:work until 10Her -- says:D:Her -- says:ok well i'll keep you company tomorrow thenHer -- says:xooHer -- says:xoxoMe says:byeHer -- says: sweet dreams...Her -- says:...of me ;)Me says::)Me says:i willHer -- says:ciaoYeah, it hurts. Her ex-boyfriend that shes still kinda living with (same house, different rooms) is quite jealous due to the fact that she talks to me more than she does to him. He thinks she's a piece of property and that he owns her. It's rather sickening, and there's not a thing I can do. I've told her to try to move to her aunts but apparently she's on vacation. The ex just stands outside the room, or comes in, whatever he feels like, and just yells at her, things that should never be said to a woman nevermind on these forums. It hurts.

Can't say that I have been in the situation before, but I feel for ya. I hope it turns out for the best.

If you play your cards right you can have the Armory Bereau of Investigation (ABI), kinda like the FBI but for TAC, take her into protective custody. I'm sure that after the ABI kicks Ivan's ass he'd be glad to take on this easy assignment. 8)

 

But yeah, I've been in that situation. And the truth is that nobody can give you the advice you need. Noone can give you the answer. We're all different, and we all have varying relations. The only two things we can give you is the results of how our situations turned out, and also the opprotunity for support.

 

As for therapy, I reccomend 4 McDonald's double cheeserburgers per day, plenty of caffinated softdrinks, and fried chicken with fren-- freedom fries in the evening. (Deep fried tacos can be substitude for the chicken). This therapy worked for me:

 

or u can scrape up some money and fly to visit her someday. See how she really is in person or wait till vacation and instead of flying u drive. I donno but thats me. and fried tacos sound good right now But ya i would see if i could visit her.

I've been in this situation... the only thing I can tell you Icopoli is to go see her. No matter of the cost, no matter of anything. Go see her, take her in your arms. Live your dream, don't dream your life. No matter of the consequence. A moment of love is bigger than every disaster that can happen to you. Carpe diem ! Seize the day ! 2000 km ? it's nothing ! When Hearts are bound and Souls entwined nothing else than love matters. Look at the sky at night : a Star shines for you two and this Star is waiting - but she won't wait eternaly. So go.Edit : just a warning... when you've found your dreaming partner (we call it Ame Soeur in French - sounds nearly like "I'm sir" :wink: ) Love may hurt you and if you need to cry, just do it. Our tears have some power to heal our own wounds. In time you'll feel that even if this love hurt you, it brings you something... as if you understand the mystery of Life itself.One last thing : some people believe that we don't have only one Ame Soeur, but some. With the experience of my "love stories", this is true. So don't despair...

huh..now u just brought back memories Frosteh :'|its sad.. because.. well she was older than me.. by 3 years..ofcourse I told her, I dont lie like some people. we .. just fell for eachother.How long have you known her for frost?I havent talked to my (life destroyer?) in, I'll say almost a year. I dont have her on msn. I wish I could talk to her.. But I cant.Heh.. She invited me to go with her and a couple of her friends to canada's wonderland, but I had to reject it since.. well I was even too embarresed to TALK to her, (maybe because I still had the voice of a girl? ) the first time ive heard her voice.. she had a stumache flu.. and she threw up the same day too.. so it wasnt too pleasant. :)I don't know for you.. but the best thing for me was too just break things up.. leave.. without saying anything... well maybe its not the best way.. but it works for me.. I guess? =/Ill tell you the truth, i cried like a baby.. atleast 20 times.. just for her.. my heart's never been so.. broken. She was talkin to another guy on the net.. my best (internet) friend.. he was her age. they called eachother every week. It sucked shit.She had to choose.And I'll leave it there. cant tell the whole story right now.. have school.- r1p

Don't be ashamed of crying Ripper.But the easyier is to leave and run away... easy is different than best. Try, Frost. So you'll have no regrets, no remorse.As for you Ripper, it's sad you were afraid... but fear is strong sometimes and we don't have enough self-confidence to go on...

it really does suck...but never give up...dreams come true and miracles happen...dont fret....even if you leave eachother dont be all down...there is plenty of fish in the sea...youll feel like you have a hole in the boat and your out of bait but dont worry...you have some stashed and you remember your on a pier =)

Youre right, there is nothing you can do, espacially being 200km from hern and espacially not through keyboard. There is no advice you can give Her this way.Also, if She wants to end this, let Her. Theres nothing worse, than sticking like a glue to somebody, who has doubts. Let Her think. Accept Her decision, youre nothing more than a male anyway. Its better to have Her as aquaintance, than an enemy.

Since a lot of other people know this already, "Her" is LuckyDevil, yes the one in [DF]. I've known her for I don't know how long now, everything we do or say is just incredible. Age thing isn't an issue, I'm just under a year younger than her, my b-day is on Jun.7th, hers is on Jun.10th but was a "year" before me. She came back on msn for awhile last night, then we played FA on TAC for a bit, you might've seen someone running around as "[No C-D]I love Danielle" with a score of like 70-10 on bocage or something. Anyway, gotta get ready for work.

I couldn't imagine the person I fell in love with plays FA with me."haha i OWNED YOU NOOB!" "and i love you";)lol, but you still didnt answer my question, when did you two meet?

For once, I find myself agreeing with Kywalker. I had a long distance relationship as well, and she wanted to walk away for awhile for strange reasons. I let her go.... and she ended up coming back to me... and now I'm married to her. Go figure.....

Frost + ripper = emo. Hope things work out with Lucky.

GO TO HER AS Arhnahel suggested.I am 39 years old.The not knowing is worse than the knowing. Do not let this bother you the rest of your life.Go to her whatever it takes. You be glad you did either way.

... I'm sry... *Hug* that's i will say, i dont give advice on things like this... sry

For once, I find myself agreeing with Kywalker.

We should have a celebration... a national holiday even...

i agree with mac 200% on this one

well condering the fact i have some experience in this area, i might as well post. altough its not nearly as far as 1200 miles, 200 miles puts a dent in a relationship (specally if were stuck w/o car). my gf and i have been going out for a lil over a year now and most of the rel has been online and over the phone. i was discussing this post eariler with her and this is some of the convo:

 

me: give me somethign to respond to that

 

her: no

 

me: .................................

 

her: i actually want to kno what you would sya to it

 

me: .......

 

me: basicly

 

me: to follow your heart and never give up

 

me: because when your heart is filled with such a great thing youll never want to give that up.. expecailly if land is the major problem

 

me: love can be felt across the mountians of the world

 

me: and the water of the oceans

 

me: basicly

 

her: you and words

 

and she gave some advice... visiting every once in a while is key. and when she says something like go away.. she is just tring to not hurt you, dont believe it when she totally disses you off. also i wrote a poem for this exact same thing. dont laugh you jerks lol

 

Forgiveness

 

From time to time again,

 

A line of men,

 

Have gotten together,

 

To make ammends.

 

They drop to their knees,

 

And bow and pray,

 

Saying sorry for they have sinned.

 

It is happening again.

 

I go with these men,

 

For I have sinned.

 

I have been away from you,

 

But I hope you forgive.

 

I love you so much,

 

For this is true.

 

You make me feel so great,

 

I want to marry you.

 

So please take my hand,

 

It's wide open free.

 

And we will go off together,

 

Just you and me.

 

follow you heart my man, and if you do that, everyhting else will fall into place....

 

-G

or u can scrape up some money and fly to visit her someday. See how she really is in person or wait till vacation and instead of flying u drive. I donno but thats me. and fried tacos sound good right now But ya i would see if i could visit her.

also i wrote a poem for this exact same thing. dont laugh you jerks lol

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHHHAHAHA

You laughed first, so I'm laughing with you. Remember, with you. 8)

 

But yeah, Frost, don't give up on the relationship just because she's far away.