I tried joining your server and five other ones and keep getting " Waiting for game to exit" and then it would disconnect me from join. Already tried Repair Game in Origin, ran PB setup and Reboot Rig.... Finally was able to join a server after playing two maps there, I was ready to jump in the TAC server when the Message come up again. I was already getting piss off!  so I asked Weedeater to join your server to see if it was just me and he was getting the same thing. So if anyone had come across this problem and know what fix is please let me know, Weed and I would rather play on a TAC server then any other place. 

 

Thank you

 

Effinred 

Found this in the battlelog hopefully it will help, I'll have to try once im home.. http://battlelog.medalofhonor.com/bf4/forum/threadview/2955064797318182560/

Hey EffinRed, many of us had the same problem.  We discovered that when the game starts to load and you see the BF4 icon in your Windows Taskbar, immediately click on it and bring up the full game screen and wait.  Usually on one try, but it may take a few.

I've had the same prob and what Gator said has been working for me also.

Thanks Gator, I'll give it a shot tonight..

Not sure if there has been a fix EA side or not but........... I had the same problem yesterday. On about the 5th attempt it let me in. Not sure if I used the fix Gator mentioned or not, but it let me in.

 

Anyway, just tried again this morning and didn't do anything.... just let it run its course... and it let me in. Hopefully it's fixed and I just didn't get lucky.

I was having a similar issue, and the clicking on the BF4 loading icon on your task bar didnt help. I just keep retrying to join and it eventually worked...