January 21, 200422 yr If it's current and she had no plans to leave the industry, I would leave her immediatly, because I don't like to share... seriously :)If it was a back issue, and she wasn't doing it anymore, it means nothing.... what was in the past is in the past, and I'm only concerned with what's going on while we're together.
January 21, 200422 yr Shrug.If someone has been 'going out' with somebody else for 2 months you cant really say they are bonded to each other. They are just beggining to know each other at a level no one has previously. So if they really have 'romantic' affection for eachother, they need to learn and learn and learn. But projecting false images is the worst thing one can do. It creates misstrust and deception, which will go on and on unil there is nothing left of the truth. The more truth they find out and accept, and as soon as possible, the more chances will they have for not only living through with initial stages of relationship together, but probably strengthening even that. Only by forgiving the past where it needs to be forgiven and accepting it as-is where it needs to be accepted, two people can really get to know eachother and finalize it by childbirth and raising of their heirs.Shrug #2The crap above was written by a guy, who never had or expects to have such a relationship. So you can forget what was written.Think the decision over. You can only regret the past, never the future. You dont know what will happen. Do as you think is the right think to do in that time. You can only learn to live by making mistakes.
January 21, 200422 yr With all the girls that are in magazines, websites, movies, and such. Chances are this has happend a lot before.What matters is how YOU feel about this. If you do not have a problem with other people seeing a beautiful body out of cloths that you may marry some day. There is nothing wrong. Women are beautiful whether in cloths or out of cloths. It all depends on how you feel about them.Since the second example was about her "not mentioning" her line of work. Two months is not that long for someone to fully involve you in their life. So to me there is NO problem there. If you do not approve. Move on. If you are OK then enjoy the beauty that is in front of you.Either way look inside you and let your feelings guide you.I myself would not have a problem unless they were invloved in movies. Pictures are one thing but sharing publically is another.
January 21, 200422 yr You have been going out with a Girl for about 2 months now and realy like her and know she likes you. You go into a Newsagents one day and she walks over to the Pornography section picks up a magazine and flips to the middle then calls you over and shows you the picture and says "Thats me" the question is what would you say in return? Wanna practice?? J/k, you know, I don't know how I'd feel.
January 22, 200422 yr TBH, I think I would just stand there have a look on my face like "Wow, oh wow." And I would stand there for probably 5 minutes, just thinking...Also, I dont think most girls are in the whole porn thing, they like relationships. And honestly, I would rather a relationship than a 1 night stand kind of thing.
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