I accepted the fact that i wont get married ever.*shrug* - i dont care anymore.

Try this: Actually go out with the girls, get to know them and their personalities? Some people may not be A+++++ on the outside but on the inside they can be.

when you meet the girl for you, she WILL be perfect.

some people... you are really really picky.

mabye u should ride around in that nice car of urs and look for her. lol but ya... if its meant to be it will happen...just be optimistic

the time will come.

Yeah, right. Tell me you believe this. :roll:

First of all.......I'm not so sure where anyone gets the idea that someone has to be perfect in order for them to love them....no offense but seems kinda pig-headish to me. I mean to have some be perfect in order for you to love them isn't love at all. Secondly, to sell yourslef short and say things like "I know I'll never get married....I just have to live with it" is self-fulfilling prophecy. If you constantly tell yourslef you'll never be happy, and that nothing will go right......ya know what? You're right, because you make yourself believe it. Confidence and self-awareness is the key to satisfaction of one's self......you've got to have it in order to be happy. But remember this.....my mother always told me this......You must love oneself completely before you can love another completely. Oh and third.......this is kinda off the subject of the forums.......

Ky said that about getting married.Oh yeah, and guess what ? You're never going to find the perfect girl. Because there isn't one. Maybe you should stick with girls that have great personalities and are pretty good looking 'cause that's the best you can get. I get thoroughly disgusted with people who base love on trivial things such as looks. Personality is much more important.

Love and having life partner are two different things.First comes from our divine part - the need of having psychological comfort. Second - from the animal part - the need to reproduce, to survive.You need to choose between them. Well, you cant really. Thats becouse there is no love left in the hearts of mankind. Thus all you can do is to reproduce. The problem is that few humans are uncomfortable with this. For them either way is painful - if they seek love, they wont find it; if they follow animal instintcs, they go mad.Now there is some 'theory' called theory of evolution. It says that only he strongest units should and WILL pass their genes to the next generation to strengthen its kind. Now, luckily, i am the blind path of evolution. I cannot pass my weak genes to my sibblings. Becouse the world doesnt need my kind: all-talkin-no-doing, frightened kinda guy who thinks that he is too weak to have a partner and thinks he never will. The world needs strong, large-elbowed, strong-backed, primitive gorilla, who fights for his own future not for the future of all species, no matter his or not his. And so far the world gets what it wants. And so far, Sterling, looks is the most important way for partner to decide ones capability of passing good genes.Yes, i dont have respect for myself. Why should i? I know myself. I know what person i am. I can analyze my behaviour well. And that brings me back some bad news. Besides being horrible in looks i have lousy personality. I have more respect to the meager ant than to myself.And on the 'love self to love other' part i disagree. Love is the conscious and unconscious act of being able to sacrifice all things, including self' life for the beloved. You dont need to love self to have that.And so far we are not allowed to talk only about politics.

i just can't be attract to a personaility, i've tried it many times. just don't work, i need everything else as well as personaility

If you're not attracted to personality then why do you need it...

Ahhh, self analysing, good stuff, though painful sometimes. Yarrrg.

i don't get what ur saying. what i'm saying is that i'm can't be attracted to personaility alone. 3% of it is personaility, the other 97% is phyical features for me.

When i compare this response to my recent post, i can tell that you will find a partner. :mrgreen:

how old are you any way?you say your life sucks because you havnt found anyone you love yet.you are rich, seem to be relativly popular so stop complaining just wait and you will meet someone!!!

17!!! man ur still young, but in the eyes of a teenager...damn ur old....lol jp. Just wait it out

Actually you should grow up as soon as possible.

noooooooooooooooooooooo...dont tell me that.

because your life will be better if you grew up now. whats this conversation about?

i can sympathize, the love of my life, my love at first sight, lives a few houses down from me. She has the exact personality traits I desire and is neither strikingly gorgeous nor fugly, she just has a quiet beauty. However, after lots of self-analysis ky-style, I just cant get up the nerve to say anything to her in terms of "will you go out on a date with me". The worst part is, I suspect she likes me as well but she is incredibly shy and quiet (just like me in real life) and so neither of us can ever strike up a real conversation beyond some occasional small talk. It blows, seeing her house everyday and not being able to talk to her at all. Dont worry man i have feeling things will change for me and you soon. We are only 17 and frankly its not all that bad not having a girlfriend when I look at teh problems some of my friends have with theirs.

Flak, just ask her out!!

argghhhh, i cant. It bothers me so badly, but i just dont have the social skill needed to ask her. However, ive been doing a lot of exercising over the last few months in preparation for the West Point PAE and the results are really strating to build my self-confidence, so i dunno maybe i will work up the nerve soon.

I will weigh in with my 2 cents here speaking from a lofty age of 21. I haev currently been in an on again off again relationship for 4 years with the same girl. At first we were really serious for about 2 years. We almost thought about gettin married (was close but i dodged the bullet) She's 2 years older than me and when we met she was a soph in college and i was a senior in high school (for those who don't want to do the math) Im pretty mature for my age and the relationship worked. (mature heh didn't think so on the server eh??) What im saying is u will meet the right person someday. Its inevitable there are 6 billion humans on the earth you can find someone. Just relax keep doin what your doin and don't think about it. It will happen. Oh and women aren't attracted to arrogancy (believe me i know) u might wanna work on that.

yah, sorry but it sounds like you ARE a pighead. You really are doomed to one night stands at most Maybe you should try an attitude transplant

this will be the first time i agree with you flak. isnt that amazing?

Dex y dont u think of it like this......u r better off than alot of people in the world. people would look up to u. just be optimistic...u need to lower ur defenses once in a while and take in the beauty once in a while....This sounded good while i was typin it...so