What usually happens when you're in grade 12? That's right everyone... it's PROM TIME! Heh.. everyone keeps asking me if i'm going to the prom (mainly guys) and I always tell them.."if i have someone to take along then i'll go.." otherwise i'll look hopeless if i go alone.. . So guys.. i have 2 people in mind that i want to ask out but i'm afraid that they're already taken and that they will get my hopes up.. (pictures availible upon request) so how can i find a date, girlfriend or even a one night stander? your suggestions would be great.. thanks

hide in the bushes of the two u want to take and see if they have dates...if they dont ask em or just say wuzzup and ask.

carve their names into your wrist with a paperclip, just to show them how much you care

hide in the bushes of the two u want

LOL!Ya, just walk up to them and ask " don you want to see something swell"?

hide in the bushes of the two u want to take and see if they have dates...if they dont ask em or just say wuzzup and ask.

any other suggestions? lol

What usually happens when you're in grade 12? That's right everyone... it's PROM TIME! Heh.. everyone keeps asking me if i'm going to the prom (mainly guys) and I always tell them.."if i have someone to take along then i'll go.." otherwise i'll look hopeless if i go alone.. . So guys.. i have 2 people in mind that i want to ask out but i'm afraid that they're already taken and that they will get my hopes up.. (pictures availible upon request) so how can i find a date, girlfriend or even a one night stander? your suggestions would be great.. thanks

FOMG PIX!!!1@#^

 

but rly, i have this problem too, about asking girls to dances and seeing if theyre single... . i hate it so much D:

just ask em...wuts the worst they could say? NO? or dress all nice and sky dive with a banner that asks if they want to go to prom with u just ask someone u wanna go with.

just ask em...wuts the worst they could say? NO? or dress all nice and sky dive with a banner that asks if they want to go to prom with u just ask someone u wanna go with.

that IS the worst they could say. no means a lot of things, and its a very hurtful word in these situations. im very anti-social, and im embarrassed by my friends a lot, and my family's not much better. so being even further embarrassed is not an option.

that IS the worst they could say. no means a lot of things, and its a very hurtful word in these situations. im very anti-social, and im embarrassed by my friends a lot, and my family's not much better. so being even further embarrassed is not an option.

Listen, you only get to go through High School one time, 95% of the people you hang out with right now, (the ones you call friends, the ones who embarrass you) you wont even call once a year 5 years from now. Don't wait till its too late and look back and say "if I only".

 

Ask her, the first couple of times its awkward, you may be suprised they may say yes. Man what I would give to go back and change some of the things I didn't do.

 

I met my wife when I was in High School working at the grocery store, all I had to do was ask if she would like to go to dinner. It took 2 times on different occasions. But what if I hadn't asked, the worst thing to do is to do nothing.

 

Ask somebody that doesn't go to your school.

 

Think about it if you show up with a girl nobody knows, all the girls at your school may pay a little more attention to you.

 

Ok I will get off the soap box.

 

Good luck.

worst they can do is say no. then you round house kick them to the face and tell them chuck norris hates them and will kill their babies.

 

or, show up stag, with a lot of booze and offer some to all the chaperones.

 

or, steal a goat with utters from a vet school and show up with it as your date.

 

or, dont listen to me because i have bad ideas =*(

Listen, you only get to go through High School one time, 95% of the people you hang out with right now, (the ones you call friends, the ones who embarrass you) you wont even call once a year; 5 years from now. Don't wait till its too late and look back and say "if I only".

 

Ask her, the first couple of times its awkward, you may be suprised they may say yes. Man what I would give to go back and change some of the things I didn't do.

 

I met my wife when I was in High School working at the grocery store, all I had to do was ask if she would like to go to dinner. It took 2 times on different occasions. But what if I hadn't asked, the worst thing to do is to do nothing.

 

Ask somebody that doesn't go to your school.

 

Ok I will get off the soap box.

 

Good luck.

Thanks cleatus and steve... I'll try to hold in my feelings when i ask but lets just pray that one of them will say yes.. Here are the pictures of the girls that i like I have high demands so try to bare with me..

 

Her name's Melissa

 

Her name's Heidi, one of the hottest girls in school

 

These girls are both 17 years old

Good luck Buddy.

Yeah good luck...even i was scared the first time and she did say no to me but its ok...once u have done it ur not scared anymore to ask another one...so go ahead and do it...we'll see that happens..

well good luck with it all. i like the goat idea. ahahahah, . i got an idea dress up like big bird from sesame street with a tie and everything, and take the goat dressed up in that elephant thing. u know big birds friend. it would be awesome!!!!

well good luck with it all. i like the goat idea. ahahahah, . i got an idea dress up like big bird from sesame street with a tie and everything, and take the goat dressed up in that elephant thing. u know big birds friend. it would be awesome!!!!

Flipster I take it a girl turned you down.

You don't have to go as a date date, but more as friends going out.

 

Don't be so nervous, just relax be calm and just be yourself and ask her would you like to go to the prom with me, and if you need to add in just as friends, if you like. I went to the prom with a date but it was more as friends since we are good buddies. And yes he did ask to the prom which came as a surprise that I wasn't excepting but I was happy. Originally I was going to go by myself with my friends, because you don't need a date to enjoy the prom just go with your group of friends.

Listen, you only get to go through High School one time, 95% of the people you hang out with right now, (the ones you call friends, the ones who embarrass you) you wont even call once a year 5 years from now. Don't wait till its too late and look back and say "if I only".

 

Ask her, the first couple of times its awkward, you may be suprised they may say yes. Man what I would give to go back and change some of the things I didn't do.

 

I met my wife when I was in High School working at the grocery store, all I had to do was ask if she would like to go to dinner. It took 2 times on different occasions. But what if I hadn't asked, the worst thing to do is to do nothing.

 

Ask somebody that doesn't go to your school.

 

Think about it if you show up with a girl nobody knows, all the girls at your school may pay a little more attention to you.

 

Ok I will get off the soap box.

 

Good luck.

Thats how my parents met =O *faint*

Okay. Preacher mode here.

 

I had the same worries. No date. The stress had me not being myself months ahead of time, trying to attract someone to go steady with me for that 1 dum night. I suffered a number of "no thankyou's". Some were rude "no way".

 

Important lesson here is this :

 

BE YOURSELF. Don't try to be like anyone else. If you're not popular, focus on the girls that are not that popular. Like the ones that are very quiet. Try to find one that has similar interests and feelings as you. Work on that by introducing yourself by name and your interests. Then incase they getting bored with that quickly ask what are their interests and goals/plans/hopes in life. When you find something in common you have something to work on. If time gets short to prom, don'y worry about common interests, the only interest for them and you to express is sincere respect to give them repsectful partner to prom. ;-)

 

DESPITE THE BIG SOCIAL PRESSURE TO HAVE A DATE FOR PROM, it does not matter. What matters is that you attend. If you don't you will regret it the rest of your life. You will gain much strength and self respect then and in later years by going anyway. There will be many i found out afterwards that did not have dates to dance with. No big deal. They socialize with those not dancing. Not everyone dances all the time. How to socilize at this monentise event you may wonder ?

 

Easy ... you ask people to answer questions they like, about themselves ... their experiences of the year ... what was the funniest ... worst ... embarassing ... frustrating ... etc ... when you get people talking about what matters to them you have their interest and appreciation ... if they don't respond the same to you with such questions you have atleast opened their door of interest to listen when you quote some of your own, hopefully in way they can relate to or atleast laugh with ;-)

 

So yes, you MUST GO. Take camera for pics you will cherish when you are 60 ;-)

 

I "been there done that". If I can prevent others from making regrettable choices as I feel i have with my life, i do so. It helps me feel better.

Thanks, Hogan.. I read your post not once, but twice and I feel that I think I am going to take your word for it but others can still feel free to post their way of how I can get a date or a prom date as there may be OTHER ideas you have on your mind that i can incorporate into Hogan's idea .. Again, thanks hogan BUT! you could always come to Toronto hogan and be my right hand muscle for the prom !

OK, trying to remember all the way back to High School.......

 

Nope, my memory doesn't go back that far.

 

From a female perspective:

Both girls are quite pretty so I must say you have good taste. This is a bit of strange advice, but ask the girl that is most likely to say "no" first. Get that first no out of the way. As to figuring out which one that is, Ask your self the following questions:

Who does she hang out with?

Are there any guys in the group?

If there are guys, are there any ones that seem to hover around her?

Odds are if there is a guy already hanging around, then she may already have a date or a boyfriend.

 

 

Be casual, ask if she's going to the prom, if yes then if she's already got a date. If not then ask her if she'd like to go with you. Do act slightly dissappointed if she says no. If at all possible continue the conversation onto other topics. That will set up the possibility of a date at another time even if Prom is out.

any other suggestions? lol

give me their e-mail's i'd like to send them this thread:D

Flipster I take it a girl turned you down.

just a girl?!?!?! ahahaha

 

ya but like tiger said who cares who u go with...just as long as u have fun

give me their e-mail's i'd like to send them this thread:D

i told them about posting their pictures on this forums and already, i think that that is hard enough...so lets just keep this thread between you and I

i told them about posting their pictures on this forums and already, i think that that is hard enough...so lets just keep this thread between you and I

you told 'em........... ur screwed:D

 

or not maybe they like that sort of attention:p

 

goodluck dood:peace:

medic what do u look like can we see a ppick? then i can telll u waht to do