March 7, 200521 yr Author All good suggestions, here's the real dilemma I'm faced with, and of course, no names will be mentioned: How do you stop caring so deeply for someone when they're so important to you, and you can't physically be with them or uh........have a healthy relationship even while just talking? It's so retardedly complicated it's not even funny.
March 7, 200521 yr All good suggestions, here's the real dilemma I'm faced with, and of course, no names will be mentioned: How do you stop caring so deeply for someone when they're so important to you, and you can't physically be with them or uh........have a healthy relationship even while just talking? It's so retardedly complicated it's not even funny. I know it's hard to stop feeling strongly about someone you really care for, especially when you pour your heart and soul into a relationship. If the person does't feel the same about you, however, you must let them go. It's painful, very painful, but you must let them go. I know this because I too recently experienced a similar relationship, so I know how you must feel. It's difficult to let someone go, especially a person you feel so strongly about. The good news is, however, you will eventually find someone who truly cares for you. Yes, there are woman out there that have good hearts and are sincere, so keep you chin up high, move on with life ...as there are many more treasures and life experiences in front of you. Good luck Gator
March 7, 200521 yr Author If the person does't feel the same about you, however, you must let them go. It's painful, very painful, but you must let them go. That's the problem, she does feel the same way, well, she does and she doesn't. She would LIKE to be together, but she knows it's not going to happen due to 2-3 reasons we can't be together, and I'd really like to let it go, but I've tried that for the last 5 months, and it hasn't worked out very well. Short of disconnecting my internet, nothing is really working, found that not playing FA for awhile helped, then I started playing again due to her asking me to. So ya, I'm hopeless?
March 7, 200521 yr That's the problem, she does feel the same way, well, she does and she doesn't. She would LIKE to be together, but she knows it's not going to happen due to 2-3 reasons we can't be together, and I'd really like to let it go, but I've tried that for the last 5 months, and it hasn't worked out very well. Short of disconnecting my internet, nothing is really working, found that not playing FA for awhile helped, then I started playing again due to her asking me to. So ya, I'm hopeless? Well, good luck to you anyway.
March 7, 200521 yr well i think i know who you're talkin bout here, but anyways.. if you want to keep the relationship up, then you have to beat those 2-3 reasons that are keeping you two from seeing eachother. if one's that you live too far away, then set a time when you'll have the money, talk to her about it, and move in with her then. I'm not really the best guy to talk to about relationships, since i'm still struggling with a girl here still.. holy crap it's been 6 months :\ ATM, I'm just trying to ignore her from my life.. try to forget about her. it might be going slowly, but it's starting to work. I'm not saying you should block her on msn and all or whatever.. bah just ignore me. i'm messed up ;/
March 7, 200521 yr Author ATM, I'm just trying to ignore her from my life.. try to forget about her. it might be going slowly, but it's starting to work. I'm not saying you should block her on msn and all or whatever.. Yeah, I tried that, it worked for awhile, but she wants to be friends, which is nice and all, but to me, I can't "just" be friends without anything more.
March 7, 200521 yr Silly emo children. You will get over it bud, and you will find someone else that you won't be able to live without.
March 7, 200521 yr Yeah, I tried that, it worked for awhile, but she wants to be friends, which is nice and all, but to me, I can't "just" be friends without anything more. That can only be good, you may get back together, or, better yet, she might tell a friend about how kind you are. Don't turn your back on her simply because she doesn't want to do "it" with you.
March 7, 200521 yr Yeah, I tried that, it worked for awhile, but she wants to be friends, which is nice and all, but to me, I can't "just" be friends without anything more. That's exactly what she's doing with me.. She keeps trying to get my attention, trying to talk to me.. I'll just say a 3 word sentence or something and then turn back to whatever I was doing.. It's not really working :\
March 7, 200521 yr i started ignoring her, and eventually she missed the attention and came crawling back. Too bad for her i slammed the door on her face ;O
March 7, 200521 yr i know where your coming from ic. but you just have to ask yourself this one simple question. is her friendship worth it? and only you can answer that. gl ot ya -G
March 8, 200521 yr i started ignoring her, and eventually she missed the attention and came crawling back. Too bad for her i slammed the door on her face ;O Good job Jimmy. We'll all get through this together
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